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Wednesday, March 16, 2005

Fitting In: VELOCITY

Tonight we talked about what qualities we look for in a friend. When there are people different from ourselves it's common that we might "reject" them in some ways. We need to feel accepted and we need to have friends. Look around our youth group and church...why do we choose to surround ourselves with people that look, dress, and act like us?

We are called as Christians to accept everyone and love our neighbor as ourselves.
Do you ever find yourself treating some people badly...because they are outsiders? This is a two way street as we sometimes treat others badly because they are insiders and we see them as "stuck up."

Honestly, do you think our youth group is good at welcoming people? We have had many visitors lately and you shouldn't just focus on you small group of friends, but try really hard to include everyone! People that don't feel welcome will not come back, so we have to be open to the people God sends our way.

Lastly we are told in James 2:1-10 that we should not show favortisim. Remember the "love your neighbor..." phrase.

Remember that God judges by the heart, not by the outward appearance! I challenge each of you to be more like Jesus allowing Him to shape you and your mind.

be God's,
James+

8 Comments:

Anonymous Xodance_n_cheerXo said...

why do we choose to surround ourselves with people that look, dress, and act like us?
to be in a group w/ your fiends.
yea!

not really!!

3/16/2005 5:23 PM

 
Blogger Remy said...

Because then we will have the same intersts and all fit in together.

Because we will have the same intersts~ Jacob

Sometimes bc they annoy me.

Not always it depends on the persona nd how the look and act etc...

3/16/2005 5:24 PM

 
Anonymous Anonymous said...

tru dat . we suround ourselves with people like us because it is easier to get along with people like u.i usualy dont treat people bad unless they do somethin to make me mad. there is no use getn mad at someone cuz wat they are like.i think our youth group is good at welcoming people, we just dont have many people to welcome.

lata------Blake

3/16/2005 5:24 PM

 
Anonymous Anonymous said...

1.because we can relate to them and have alot in common w/ them..
2.Yes.. and now i feel really bad about it.
3.Yes..everyone treats everyone w/ respect most of the time.
-Alexis Lovejoy

3/16/2005 5:26 PM

 
Blogger *Anna* said...

i think we chose 2 surround ourselves that people that dress and act like us because we feel like we would fit in the best wiht them. i don't usually treat "outsiders" badly because they haven't done anything 2 me. i think that our youth group is very good inviting people. we are very energetic. you guys should come if u usually don't. ttyl

3/16/2005 5:31 PM

 
Blogger GETAR89 said...

I think we choose to surround ourselves with people that look, dress, and and act us beacause -for example- if we were all REALLY "preppy" then it would be weird to invite all the "gothic: people to church with us. We think that the people that look/dress/act like us are right, but sometimes we arent always right. ( Sorry that was kind confusing)

Yea, I catch myself thinking that they are "outsiders" and that they could never be your friend. But until you get to know them, or have one of them in your class, you dont see whats inside.

I think that our youth group accepts "newcomers" by what they wear or how they look. If someone new was to come in our youth group wearing "homeless" clothes, or even if they really wear homeless-OKAY, so what if a homeless 13 year old girl came in our church wanting to join. She would feel WAY out of place, beacsue there is no one like that in our youth group. It will be hard, because she has propaply been through a lot. But i think we should get involved and not just judge people by how they look.(that went wwwwaaaayyy off subject)

Pray that Happening goes well,

Emily Emily Emily Emily Emily

PS. Yea i have been thinking, if I became a youth minister,later on of course, i could lead worship like Chris did, and be the youth minister. Wouldnt that be cool? Anyways, thats just something I was thinking about in Bible Study. LOL

I_LOVE_YOUR_MOM

3/16/2005 6:27 PM

 
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